There are statement-making holiday gifts and then there are those that are true conversation starters — those rarefied, exclusive finds that are bestowed with instant heirloom-worthy status.

But what makes such a truly singular gift? For starters, truly knowing what makes the recipient light up is the best place to begin. However, there is an art to bespoke gift-giving and we are going to share our recipe. In fact, we suggest thinking of yourself as a merry-making master mixologist and following our tried-and-true recipe for serving up a gift so extraordinary that they would never have imagined it for themselves.

To begin with: Always start with premium ingredients. Buttery, Italian-made leathers, crystal of exquisite clarity, rare gemstones and metals are the bedrock of a delicious present. Next: Choose top-shelf design houses known for exceptional quality and a heritage of craftsmanship passed down through the finest artisans. Then consider: Will it be on the rocks? Sure, stunning diamonds and gemstones are perennial favorites when it comes to exceptional gifts, but exquisite finds come in myriad materials and finishes.

And, lastly, don’t forget to garnish with gorgeous wrapping that adds the finishing touch and hints at the inspired gift inside. Finally, sit back and savor the delight when the gift is opened!

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